Dear Sister, have you found yourself standing in the ruins of what once was? Perhaps you have lost a loved one, faced the pain of divorce, endured a heartbreaking breakup, or suffered the devastation of losing your job. Whatever your life-altering event, it has left you broken, staring at the rubble of what used to be your life. Just as Nehemiah surveyed the broken walls of Jerusalem, you may be surveying the damage in your own heart. But take heart—God is calling you to rebuild.
Recognizing the Brokenness
Before rebuilding can begin, we must first acknowledge the ruins. Nehemiah wept, fasted, and sought God’s face (Nehemiah 1:4). Likewise, it is okay to mourn what was lost, to grieve what once stood. However, do not stay there—recognizing brokenness is the first step toward restoration.
Taking Personal Responsibility: Repentance and Confession
The Israelites confessed their sins before the Lord, acknowledging their role in their downfall (Nehemiah 1:6-7). While some losses are beyond our control, there are moments when we must be honest about the choices we made that contributed to our situation. If we need to repent, let’s do so. If we need to ask for healing, let’s plead before the Lord. God’s mercy is abundant, and He is ready to restore.
Identifying What Needs to Be Rebuilt
Nehemiah carefully examined the damage (Nehemiah 2:13-15). As you begin to rebuild, ask yourself:
- What part of my life continues to suffer loss?
- Is it my faith?
- My confidence?
- My trust in others?
- My financial stability?
- My emotional health?
Identifying these broken walls is crucial because restoration requires intentional rebuilding.
Surrounding Yourself with Godly Support
Nehemiah did not rebuild alone; he worked alongside trustworthy people who shared his faith and vision (Nehemiah 3). You, too, need people who will encourage and uplift you—friends, mentors, church family, or even a counselor. Surround yourself with godly, wise individuals who will help you rebuild in alignment with God’s plan.
Recognizing the Strategies of the Enemy
As you rebuild, expect opposition. Just as Sanballat and Tobiah mocked Nehemiah, the enemy will use intimidation, discouragement, and even those close to you to try to stop your progress (Nehemiah 4:1-3). Recognize the enemy’s tactics:
- Intimidation – Making you feel like you will fail.
- Distraction – Using personal struggles or conflicts to slow your progress.
- Hurtful words – People speaking doubt over your restoration.
Nehemiah did not let these attacks stop him; instead, he prayed and kept building (Nehemiah 4:9). You must do the same—stay steadfast in prayer, hold on to your faith, and keep moving forward.
Seeking God in Every Step
Nehemiah consulted the Lord before every decision. He did not rush ahead without divine guidance (Nehemiah 2:4). As you rebuild, seek God in prayer before making decisions about your future. Let Him lead your steps, for He knows the best path to restoration.
Completion and Celebration
Despite every obstacle, the wall was completed in 52 days (Nehemiah 6:15). Likewise, God can restore you faster than you think. When you have rebuilt—whether it’s your faith, confidence, career, or relationships—celebrate! Your testimony will inspire others to rebuild their own lives.
Conclusion
You are not your past. You are not defined by your pain. Like Nehemiah, you are a builder. God is with you, and what is broken today will stand strong again. Take up your tools, dear sister, and start rebuilding.Lets take it piece by piece,trusting in the Lords plan for our lives according to Jeremiah 29:11-
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
“The God of heaven will give us success. We His servants will start rebuilding.” (Nehemiah 2:20)